I know I'm a little late to the party since World Breastfeeding Week ran from August 1-7th, but the constant Mommy Wars over the best way to feed your baby this past week really got me thinking.
First, let me fill you in on my history with breastfeeding...
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Friday, October 5, 2012
31 Days-Feeding Time with a Newborn
You knew it was coming, right? I had a baby girl 6 days ago so at least one of these 31 Day posts just had to be baby related. I kind of have baby on the brain (and arm, quite a bit of the time) right now.
I breastfed my older two and am bottlefeeding this one. I wavered a lot about bottlefeeding her, but it turned out to be an easy decision as she's tongue tied and wouldn't have been able to nurse well anyways. However, the same basic tool has made each individual experience much easier.
My mom gave me this awesome Munchkin diaper organizer when I had Little Man. With Princess I used a cardboard box to do the same thing, but it was harder to carry and organize. The Munchkin diaper organizer is waaaay better than a cardboard box and much cuter!
I stock mine with everything I will need for feeding and changing baby. When I was breastfeeding, that included a bottle of water, snacks, a book to read (because my babies took forever to finish eating), diapers, wipes, changing pad, diaper rash cream, nursing pads, and burp cloths. Everything I needed was right there and the box/diaper organizer could be easily moved to wherever I was nursing. No more sitting down to nurse a hungry baby and realizing that if I didn't have a drink of water I was literally going to turn into dust in the next few minutes! (If you've ever breastfed, you know that feeling!)
Even though I'm bottlefeeding now, my list is pretty similar. I have diapers, wipes, burp cloths, diaper rash cream, and a changing pad in the organizer during the day. At night, I load it up with bottles pre-measured with water and a travel formula dispenser (shown below) so I can do everything right from my bed.
Do you have any tips for surviving the early days with a newborn?
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I breastfed my older two and am bottlefeeding this one. I wavered a lot about bottlefeeding her, but it turned out to be an easy decision as she's tongue tied and wouldn't have been able to nurse well anyways. However, the same basic tool has made each individual experience much easier.
My mom gave me this awesome Munchkin diaper organizer when I had Little Man. With Princess I used a cardboard box to do the same thing, but it was harder to carry and organize. The Munchkin diaper organizer is waaaay better than a cardboard box and much cuter!
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Munchkin Portable Diaper Caddy (Colors May Vary) |
I stock mine with everything I will need for feeding and changing baby. When I was breastfeeding, that included a bottle of water, snacks, a book to read (because my babies took forever to finish eating), diapers, wipes, changing pad, diaper rash cream, nursing pads, and burp cloths. Everything I needed was right there and the box/diaper organizer could be easily moved to wherever I was nursing. No more sitting down to nurse a hungry baby and realizing that if I didn't have a drink of water I was literally going to turn into dust in the next few minutes! (If you've ever breastfed, you know that feeling!)
Even though I'm bottlefeeding now, my list is pretty similar. I have diapers, wipes, burp cloths, diaper rash cream, and a changing pad in the organizer during the day. At night, I load it up with bottles pre-measured with water and a travel formula dispenser (shown below) so I can do everything right from my bed.
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Munchkin Powdered Formula Dispenser, Colors May Vary |
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| Diaper organizer loaded up and ready to go! |
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| A box of wipes fits perfectly inside the main pocket. |
Do you have any tips for surviving the early days with a newborn?
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Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Little Man
When Princess was a baby, I thought she was difficult. Several things contributed to this belief. One being that it was such a huge "culture shock" if you will, to go from life being all about me and Hubby to being all about this tiny screaming baby. Another was because Princess had problems breastfeeding. Another was the traumatic labor and delivery that took almost two months and a lot of pain pills to fully recover from. The biggest was the post partum depression that I didn't even recognize as such until someone pointed it out to me later.
I survived and when Princess was two years old, she was blessed with a baby brother.
And he made her look like a perfectly angelic baby.
He was born screaming, which most babies are, but his was a different scream. It was an angry scream that even took the doctor by surprise. Especially when he didn't stop. When I tried breastfeeding him, he almost turned blue from screaming so hard. The experienced lactation consultant who came to help me figure out how to feed this baby boy was amazed at how violently opposed to nursing he was. Extremely frustrated, she finally left my hospital room with a parting, "I don't know what to tell you, but good luck."
The first night in the hospital after Little Man was born, Hubby and I sent him to the nursery so we could get some much needed sleep. The next morning, I awoke to the sound of a baby screaming so hard that I'm surprised the poor thing was still conscious. As I came out of my groggy state, I recognized the scream (not cry) and nudged Hubby. "That's our baby. You better go get him."
Hubby looked at me in disbelief. "That has to be another baby in a room close to ours. We wouldn't be able to hear ours so well since he's in the nursery."
Nonetheless, I sent Hubby down to the nursery to bring back Little Man and sure enough, I was right.
At this point, I thought about asking the hospital what their return policy was for babies. I refrained.
When we brought Little Man home, things didn't exactly improve. It took almost a month to figure out that the only way to get him to sleep was to swaddle him so tightly that he couldn't move a muscle, throw a light blanket over his eyes, give him a pacifier, and bounce on an exercise ball until he finally stopped fighting and screaming and fell asleep an hour and a half later. Due to the amount of sleep new babies need, I spent most of my day bouncing relentlessly. His only redemption was that starting at 5 weeks old, after I'd gotten him to fall asleep at night, he would then stay asleep in his crib all night. I really looked forward to bedtime.
The breastfeeding situation didn't improve either. Because he refused to nurse (still screaming the whole time) my milk supply decreased. When he was 3 1/2 months old, a nasty bout of mastitis put an end to breastfeeding and I reluctantly decided to bottlefeed. I was pretty bummed about it at first, but as you can see by the pictures, it was obvious that Little Man wasn't getting enough to eat from nursing and, once that stressful issue was over, things got a little bit better.
Around 4 months old, Little Man finally fell asleep in the infant swing. I had swaddled him, given him his pacifier, covered his face with a blanket and bounced him for almost three hours and he was still screaming. Finally, I put him in the swing (still swaddled), turned it on, and went outside to get some air before I lost it. When I came back inside 10 minutes later, he was sleeping. I was so happy, I cried and I might have also kissed the swing. Maybe. After that, I was able to swaddle Little Man, give him a pacifier, and put him in the swing to fall asleep. I got several lectures from well-meaning friends about how I was teaching him to be dependent on the swing for sleep. I didn't care. If I had to special order a swing that would still fit him in kindergarten, I didn't care. He was sleeping.
Between 4 and 5 months old, Little Man slowly started to improve. By 6 months old, he was the easiest baby ever and a joy to have around. It was like he'd had a complete personality change and I was finally able to enjoy being his mommy.
If you are struggling with a colicky baby, have hope. It will end eventually.
I survived and when Princess was two years old, she was blessed with a baby brother.
And he made her look like a perfectly angelic baby.
He was born screaming, which most babies are, but his was a different scream. It was an angry scream that even took the doctor by surprise. Especially when he didn't stop. When I tried breastfeeding him, he almost turned blue from screaming so hard. The experienced lactation consultant who came to help me figure out how to feed this baby boy was amazed at how violently opposed to nursing he was. Extremely frustrated, she finally left my hospital room with a parting, "I don't know what to tell you, but good luck."
The first night in the hospital after Little Man was born, Hubby and I sent him to the nursery so we could get some much needed sleep. The next morning, I awoke to the sound of a baby screaming so hard that I'm surprised the poor thing was still conscious. As I came out of my groggy state, I recognized the scream (not cry) and nudged Hubby. "That's our baby. You better go get him."
Hubby looked at me in disbelief. "That has to be another baby in a room close to ours. We wouldn't be able to hear ours so well since he's in the nursery."
Nonetheless, I sent Hubby down to the nursery to bring back Little Man and sure enough, I was right.
At this point, I thought about asking the hospital what their return policy was for babies. I refrained.
When we brought Little Man home, things didn't exactly improve. It took almost a month to figure out that the only way to get him to sleep was to swaddle him so tightly that he couldn't move a muscle, throw a light blanket over his eyes, give him a pacifier, and bounce on an exercise ball until he finally stopped fighting and screaming and fell asleep an hour and a half later. Due to the amount of sleep new babies need, I spent most of my day bouncing relentlessly. His only redemption was that starting at 5 weeks old, after I'd gotten him to fall asleep at night, he would then stay asleep in his crib all night. I really looked forward to bedtime.
The breastfeeding situation didn't improve either. Because he refused to nurse (still screaming the whole time) my milk supply decreased. When he was 3 1/2 months old, a nasty bout of mastitis put an end to breastfeeding and I reluctantly decided to bottlefeed. I was pretty bummed about it at first, but as you can see by the pictures, it was obvious that Little Man wasn't getting enough to eat from nursing and, once that stressful issue was over, things got a little bit better.
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| Little Man at 3 months old when he was still breastfeeding. Scrawny little thing, but he still had those kissable, squishable cheeks! |
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| Little Man at 4 months old a few weeks after we switched to bottles. |
Around 4 months old, Little Man finally fell asleep in the infant swing. I had swaddled him, given him his pacifier, covered his face with a blanket and bounced him for almost three hours and he was still screaming. Finally, I put him in the swing (still swaddled), turned it on, and went outside to get some air before I lost it. When I came back inside 10 minutes later, he was sleeping. I was so happy, I cried and I might have also kissed the swing. Maybe. After that, I was able to swaddle Little Man, give him a pacifier, and put him in the swing to fall asleep. I got several lectures from well-meaning friends about how I was teaching him to be dependent on the swing for sleep. I didn't care. If I had to special order a swing that would still fit him in kindergarten, I didn't care. He was sleeping.
Between 4 and 5 months old, Little Man slowly started to improve. By 6 months old, he was the easiest baby ever and a joy to have around. It was like he'd had a complete personality change and I was finally able to enjoy being his mommy.
If you are struggling with a colicky baby, have hope. It will end eventually.
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Is It Really Worth It?
I'm a big fan of breastfeeding. I know the health benefits and I appreciate the bonding aspect of it as well. Although Princess wasn't a good nurser, I still nursed her for a year. She didn't nurse exclusively because she was such a lazy eater that she didn't get enough that way, so she did have formula as well. But when you consider how hard it was to teach her how to latch on and then to keep her sucking long enough to get a full meal, a year is pretty impressive.
I was planning to breastfeed Little Man for a year as well. Now, I want to be done as soon as possible. It's been a nightmare to nurse him since the day he was born. He has problems latching on so I have to use a nipple shield. Then he screams and gets angry if milk isn't pouring into his mouth the whole time so about half the time I have to fight to get him to stay on the breast long enough. I can't take him anywhere because he refuses to nurse anywhere but home. Occasionally I can get him to nurse when we're out somewhere, but usually I end up giving him a bottle. Then I started getting plugged milk ducts, which are pretty painful. One of those led to a pretty bad case of mastitis which took over a week to clear up completely. Since the mastitis, I've been getting a plugged duct almost every day. I also got mastitis again, but since I'd just had it, I knew how to treat it right away to keep it from getting worse.
Breastfeeding has NOT been a bonding experience at all with Little Man. In fact, it's actually kept me from bonding with him somewhat. He has flatout refused to nurse more than once or twice a day for the last week which means I get to haul out the good old breastpump and vacuum out my breasts multiple times a day. Yay. I would love to just stop nursing, but with my issues with plugged ducts and mastitis, I have to go VERY slow so I don't end up with a bad infection.
The lactation consultants and breastfeeding advocates I've talked to have been discouraging me from weaning Little Man. They keep saying that if I just pump, I'll get my milk supply up enough, and I shouldn't be giving him bottles because that's just making the problem worse. I've gotten so many tips on how to get him to latch on, how to relax and enjoy nursing, etc. But, you know what? None of these people are here when Little Man is screaming and turning purple because I'm trying to get him to nurse while Princess is in the bathroom using my toothbrush to clean the diaper pail. So while I still support breastfeeding and believe it's the best option for the baby, I also believe that if it's not working and it's making the mom miserable, IT'S NOT WORTH IT! By the way, the breastfeeding advocates I've talked to all had an easy time nursing, so they really can't judge me for bottle feeding.
And yet, no matter how much I'm looking forward to being done breastfeeding, I'm sad that it didn't work out. I enjoyed nursing Princess and only gave it up at a year because so many people told me that she was "too old" to breastfeed anymore. I know I'll second guess myself later and wonder if I'd tried more, if I could've breastfed Little Man longer. And anytime Little Man gets sick, I'll wish I'd been able to nurse him longer to give him more antibodies. I wavered on my decision to stop breastfeeding for over a month until I got mastitis and decided for sure. But even now, I find myself thinking that if Little Man is my last baby, I'll never get the chance to breastfeed again. However, no matter what decision I'd made about breastfeeding, I think mommy guilt would've kicked in.
Unsolicited Advice:
Breastfeed if you can, but if you can't for any reason, don't sweat it.
I was planning to breastfeed Little Man for a year as well. Now, I want to be done as soon as possible. It's been a nightmare to nurse him since the day he was born. He has problems latching on so I have to use a nipple shield. Then he screams and gets angry if milk isn't pouring into his mouth the whole time so about half the time I have to fight to get him to stay on the breast long enough. I can't take him anywhere because he refuses to nurse anywhere but home. Occasionally I can get him to nurse when we're out somewhere, but usually I end up giving him a bottle. Then I started getting plugged milk ducts, which are pretty painful. One of those led to a pretty bad case of mastitis which took over a week to clear up completely. Since the mastitis, I've been getting a plugged duct almost every day. I also got mastitis again, but since I'd just had it, I knew how to treat it right away to keep it from getting worse.
Breastfeeding has NOT been a bonding experience at all with Little Man. In fact, it's actually kept me from bonding with him somewhat. He has flatout refused to nurse more than once or twice a day for the last week which means I get to haul out the good old breastpump and vacuum out my breasts multiple times a day. Yay. I would love to just stop nursing, but with my issues with plugged ducts and mastitis, I have to go VERY slow so I don't end up with a bad infection.
The lactation consultants and breastfeeding advocates I've talked to have been discouraging me from weaning Little Man. They keep saying that if I just pump, I'll get my milk supply up enough, and I shouldn't be giving him bottles because that's just making the problem worse. I've gotten so many tips on how to get him to latch on, how to relax and enjoy nursing, etc. But, you know what? None of these people are here when Little Man is screaming and turning purple because I'm trying to get him to nurse while Princess is in the bathroom using my toothbrush to clean the diaper pail. So while I still support breastfeeding and believe it's the best option for the baby, I also believe that if it's not working and it's making the mom miserable, IT'S NOT WORTH IT! By the way, the breastfeeding advocates I've talked to all had an easy time nursing, so they really can't judge me for bottle feeding.
And yet, no matter how much I'm looking forward to being done breastfeeding, I'm sad that it didn't work out. I enjoyed nursing Princess and only gave it up at a year because so many people told me that she was "too old" to breastfeed anymore. I know I'll second guess myself later and wonder if I'd tried more, if I could've breastfed Little Man longer. And anytime Little Man gets sick, I'll wish I'd been able to nurse him longer to give him more antibodies. I wavered on my decision to stop breastfeeding for over a month until I got mastitis and decided for sure. But even now, I find myself thinking that if Little Man is my last baby, I'll never get the chance to breastfeed again. However, no matter what decision I'd made about breastfeeding, I think mommy guilt would've kicked in.
Unsolicited Advice:
Breastfeed if you can, but if you can't for any reason, don't sweat it.
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
Baby Stuff I Love
Apparently I'm not loyal to any one brand. These are some of my favorite brands of baby products.
Boppy pillow: Works great for breastfeeding, bottle feeding, and propping up the baby while he or she is learning how to sit.
Avent bottles and training cups: I love that the nipples are marked with a number indicating how fast the flow of milk is, unlike other nipples which you have to guess at. I also like the wide mouth of the bottle because I don't spill the formula when putting it in the bottle. I used the training cups when Princess was transitioning from a bottle to a sippy. The handles and sippy top screw onto the bottles as well so I didn't have to take a bottle AND a sippy cup when we went out.
Nuby sippy cups: The soft top makes the transition from bottle to sippy easier on baby.
Mam pacifiers: Louise's cheeks and chin broke out everytime she used a pacifier until I found the Mam pacifiers which have dimples on the underside and holes for air ventilation.
Jeep stroller: I LOVE my jeep stroller. I got an all terrain jeep stroller as a gift for Louise and I used it a lot. It's big and roomy with plenty of storage, has an mp3 hookup, and can navigate rough terrain which is a must since I live out in the country.
Members Mark baby wipes: Reasonably priced at Sam's Club, and the packages come with a pop up lid so you can use them straight out of the package or refill your wipes case with them.
Carter's clothes: Cute clothes, reasonable prices. Need I say more?
Sassy toys: Sassy makes some really cute baby toys with bright colors.
JJ Cole Diaper bag and pacifier keeper: After going through 3 diaper bags which ripped after a few months of use, I splurged and bought a JJ Cole Mode Tote Bag in the cocoa tree design. I haven't been disappointed. It's heavy duty, comes with shoulder straps, hand straps, and stroller straps, a large changing pad that folds up really thin so it's easy to carry with, and is roomy enough for all the junk I carry around with me. I also like the pacifier keeper JJ Cole makes. It's a good size, straps onto any bag or stroller, and has a velcro closure that makes it easy to get to the pacifier.
What are some of your favorites for baby gear?
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Boppy pillow: Works great for breastfeeding, bottle feeding, and propping up the baby while he or she is learning how to sit.
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Boppy Bare Naked Pillow |
Avent bottles and training cups: I love that the nipples are marked with a number indicating how fast the flow of milk is, unlike other nipples which you have to guess at. I also like the wide mouth of the bottle because I don't spill the formula when putting it in the bottle. I used the training cups when Princess was transitioning from a bottle to a sippy. The handles and sippy top screw onto the bottles as well so I didn't have to take a bottle AND a sippy cup when we went out.
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Philips AVENT BPA Free Infant Bottle Starter Set |
Nuby sippy cups: The soft top makes the transition from bottle to sippy easier on baby.
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Nuby 2-Pack 8 oz No Spill Cup with Super Spout |
Mam pacifiers: Louise's cheeks and chin broke out everytime she used a pacifier until I found the Mam pacifiers which have dimples on the underside and holes for air ventilation.
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MAM 2 Pack Start Orthodontic Silicone Pacifier, Colors may vary |
Jeep stroller: I LOVE my jeep stroller. I got an all terrain jeep stroller as a gift for Louise and I used it a lot. It's big and roomy with plenty of storage, has an mp3 hookup, and can navigate rough terrain which is a must since I live out in the country.
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Jeep Liberty Limited Urban Terrain Stroller, Spark |
Members Mark baby wipes: Reasonably priced at Sam's Club, and the packages come with a pop up lid so you can use them straight out of the package or refill your wipes case with them.
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Member's Mark Folded Moist Wipes, Case Pack, 8/90 Count (720 Wipes) |
Carter's clothes: Cute clothes, reasonable prices. Need I say more?
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Carter's Boys Firetruck 3 Pc Shorts Set 2 in 1 Outfits |
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Carter's Pink & White Love 3-pc. Bodysuit Set |
Sassy toys: Sassy makes some really cute baby toys with bright colors.
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Sassy Illumination Station |
JJ Cole Diaper bag and pacifier keeper: After going through 3 diaper bags which ripped after a few months of use, I splurged and bought a JJ Cole Mode Tote Bag in the cocoa tree design. I haven't been disappointed. It's heavy duty, comes with shoulder straps, hand straps, and stroller straps, a large changing pad that folds up really thin so it's easy to carry with, and is roomy enough for all the junk I carry around with me. I also like the pacifier keeper JJ Cole makes. It's a good size, straps onto any bag or stroller, and has a velcro closure that makes it easy to get to the pacifier.
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JJ Cole Mode Diaper Tote Bag, Cocoa Tree |
What are some of your favorites for baby gear?
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